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4-Hour Workweek Success Stories — Charlie Houpert on Building “Charisma on Command” to 10M+ Subscribers, From Charging $10 for Seminars to Making Millions, Living in Brazil, Critical Early Decisions, and The Secret to Freedom (#817)

“Do I choose myself in the face of the world offering me all of this temptation to be something else?”
— Charlie Houpert

Charlie Houpert (@charliehoupert) is the co-founder of Charisma on Command, a company that helps people develop confidence, charisma, and strong social skills. Originally launched as a 4-Hour Workweek-inspired “muse,” it has since grown into one of the largest platforms for social skills and confidence training, with more than 10 million YouTube subscribers worldwide and more than a billion views across its content in six languages. His flagship course, Charisma University, has guided more than 30,000 members through practical steps to become more magnetic.

Charlie was once voted “Most Likely to Break Out of His Shell” and began studying charisma to overcome his own social anxiety. He now explores the deeper roots of confidence through archetypal psychology, embodiment practices, and more.

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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE

  • Connect with Charlie Houpert:

Charisma on Command | Charisma University | Dropping In Podcast | Improv & Dragons | YouTube | Twitter | Instagram | LinkedIn

Companies, Organizations, and Brands

  • Charisma on Command: a personal development company and YouTube channel focused on enhancing charisma and communication skills through online courses and content.
  • Skillshare: an online learning platform offering thousands of creative and business courses taught by industry experts.
  • TrepStar: an on-demand media fulfillment service specializing in short-run CD, DVD, and USB manufacturing and shipping.
  • Chipotle: a fast-casual Mexican restaurant chain known for customizable burritos, bowls, and tacos made with responsibly sourced ingredients.
  • Airbnb: a global online marketplace connecting travelers with hosts offering unique accommodations and experiences.
  • Google (Adwords): Google’s online advertising platform, now called Google Ads, that enables businesses to display ads across Google’s network.
  • SamCart: an e-commerce platform designed specifically for selling digital products with conversion-optimized checkout experiences and upselling features.
  • Marvel: a multimedia entertainment company famous for its superhero franchises, comic books, and blockbuster film universe.
  • Lexus: Toyota’s luxury vehicle division known for premium cars, SUVs, and hybrid technology with emphasis on craftsmanship and reliability.
  • Patek Philippe: a prestigious Swiss luxury watch manufacturer renowned for creating some of the world’s most expensive and collectible timepieces.
  • Boeing: an American multinational aerospace corporation that designs, manufactures, and sells commercial airplanes, defense systems, and space technology.
  • Whole Foods: an upscale grocery chain specializing in organic and natural products, known for high-quality foods and health-conscious shopping experience.

Blogs, Websites, and Online Platforms

  • KickAss Academy: the original domain name for Charlie’s personal development blog and business before rebranding to Charisma on Command.
  • Reddit: a social news aggregation and discussion platform where users can share content and engage in community discussions across thousands of topics.
  • Clarity.fm: an on-demand consulting platform that connects entrepreneurs with industry experts for paid phone consultations, featuring advisors like Mark Cuban and Eric Ries.
  • WordPress: the world’s most popular content management system, powering over 40% of websites with flexible themes and plugins for building any type of site.
  • vBulletin: a commercial forum software package that enables communities to create feature-rich discussion boards with advanced moderation and customization tools.
  • The Last Psychiatrist: an influential anonymous blog by psychiatrist Dr. Chris Ballas that offered penetrating cultural criticism and psychological analysis from 2007-2014.
  • Cracked: a humor website known for its comedic articles, lists, and videos that blend entertainment with surprising insights and historical facts.

Courses and Programs

  • Charisma University: Charlie’s flagship online course teaching practical charisma and communication skills through step-by-step training modules, exercises, and real-world application techniques.
  • Marketing Step-by-Step: Eben Pagan’s comprehensive entrepreneurial marketing course covering psychology-driven strategies for customer acquisition, conversion, and business growth.
  • Art of Accomplishment: Joe Hudson’s transformational coaching program blending neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual practices to help high-performers break through limiting patterns and emotional barriers.

Books

Movies, TV Shows, and Media

  • Inception: Christopher Nolan’s mind-bending heist thriller about extracting and planting ideas through shared dreaming, featuring layered dream sequences within dreams and Leonardo DiCaprio’s reality-questioning performance.
  • Casino Royale (2006): the James Bond reboot featuring an iconic eight-minute parkour chase sequence with freerunner Sébastien Foucan that inspired Charlie’s first business idea for parkour training DVDs.
  • Game of Thrones: HBO’s fantasy epic whose complex characters like Jon Snow and Tyrion Lannister became perfect subjects for Charlie’s “fame-jacking” YouTube strategy, borrowing existing audience attention.
  • The Tim Ferriss Experiment: My reality TV show where I attempted to master various skills in record time, including a particularly cringe-worthy episode about dating and cold approach techniques.
  • True Detective: the philosophical crime drama that was referenced in one of The Last Psychiatrist‘s characteristically penetrating blog post titles, blending pop culture with psychological analysis.
  • Improv & Dragons: Charlie’s own YouTube series combining improvisational comedy with Dungeons & Dragons gameplay, showcasing his evolution from consumer to creator of entertaining content.

People

  • Neil Strauss: author of The Game, a controversial exploration of pickup artist culture that inadvertently became a masterclass in social psychology and persuasion techniques.
  • Neville Medhora: a copywriter and entrepreneur who founded Copywriting Course after helping AppSumo achieve their highest sales days through psychological email marketing.
  • Tony Robbins: legendary motivational speaker and life coach known for transforming human potential through neurolinguistic programming and peak performance strategies.
  • Tucker Max: bestselling author of I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell and master of provocative personal branding who provided Charlie crucial early feedback on his business positioning.
  • Eben Pagan: marketing strategist and entrepreneur who created the “Marketing Step-by-Step” course that influenced Charlie’s rebranding to Charisma on Command, known for alliterative branding techniques.
  • David DeAngelo: Eben Pagan’s pseudonym under which he wrote Double Your Dating, demonstrating early personal branding strategies in the dating advice industry.
  • Ryan Holiday: bestselling author and marketing expert who was working as Tucker Max’s research assistant when I first encountered Tucker’s unconventional approach.
  • Brian Chesky: co-founder and CEO of Airbnb, renowned for his philosophy of “doing things that don’t scale” in the early stages of building disruptive businesses.
  • Clay Collins: online course creator who developed influential frameworks for pre-selling courses before creating them, providing Charlie with strategic product launch methodologies.
  • Avicii: Swedish DJ and electronic music producer whose live performance Charlie witnessed during his transformational first visit to Las Vegas.
  • Bill Clinton: 42nd President of the United States whose masterful eye contact techniques in political debates became the subject of one of Charlie’s breakthrough YouTube videos.
  • Greg McKeown: author of Essentialism, advocating for the disciplined pursuit of less but better through systematic prioritization and elimination strategies.
  • Herbie: fictional character from Greg McKeown’s Essentialism representing the bottleneck principle – that improving the slowest part of any system dramatically improves overall performance.
  • Donald Trump: businessman and 45th President whose communication style Charlie analyzed in a viral 2016 video predicting his electoral success, which tripled Charlie’s business.
  • Scott Adams: creator of the Dilbert comic strip and master persuader who also predicted Trump’s victory early, demonstrating advanced understanding of cognitive biases.
  • Conor McGregor: Irish UFC fighter whose psychological warfare tactics and charismatic self-promotion became frequent subjects of Charlie’s behavioral analysis videos.
  • Robert Downey Jr.: Academy Award-nominated actor whose quick wit and magnetic interview presence provided rich material for Charlie’s charisma breakdowns.
  • Gary Vaynerchuk: entrepreneur and social media expert who popularized the “jab, jab, jab, right hook” content strategy of providing value before making sales pitches.
  • Mr. Beast: YouTube phenomenon whose data-driven approach to viral content creation and psychological thumbnail optimization represents modern digital storytelling mastery.
  • David Ogilvy: legendary advertising executive known as the “Father of Advertising” whose timeless principles of persuasion continue influencing modern marketing.
  • Keanu Reeves: the perfect example of an introvert who exudes confidence despite being quiet and somewhat reclusive.
  • Brené Brown: research professor and author whose insights on vulnerability and courage include the wisdom that healthy relationships are never truly 50/50.
  • Thucydides: ancient Greek historian whose philosophy inspired Charlie’s tattoo: “The secret to freedom is courage” — representing the intersection of wisdom and personal transformation.
  • Joe Hudson: executive coach and creator of Art of Accomplishment who guided Charlie through the complex emotional and strategic challenges of buying out his business co-founder.
  • Sam Altman: CEO of OpenAI who publicly endorsed Joe Hudson’s work through social media, validating the psychological frameworks Charlie was learning.
  • Nathaniel Branden: psychologist and author of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem whose sentence completion exercises helped Charlie excavate limiting beliefs and unconscious patterns.
  • Jay Abraham: business strategist and “old-school” marketing coach who challenged Charlie to create content worthy of being consumed by the people who had influenced him.
  • Kahlil Gibran: Lebanese-American writer and philosopher, author of The Prophet, whose poetic wisdom on human nature continues influencing spiritual and personal development.
  • Dale Carnegie: author of the timeless classic How to Win Friends and Influence People, establishing foundational principles for human relationship dynamics and social influence.
  • Hafez: Persian lyrical poet from Shiraz, considered one of the greatest masters of the ghazal form, whose mystical and romantic verses exploring love, wine, and spiritual yearning have influenced literature for over 600 years.
  • Martha Beck: life coach and author known for integrating ancient wisdom with modern psychological techniques.
  • Brandon Sanderson: prolific fantasy author whose systematic approach to world-building and storytelling demonstrates the intersection of creativity and methodical execution.
  • Richard Koch: author of The 80/20 Principle, advocating for identifying the vital few inputs that generate the majority of meaningful outputs in any system.
  • Yvon Chouinard: founder of Patagonia and author of Let My People Go Surfing, demonstrating how authentic values can drive both business success and environmental activism.
  • Ricardo Semler: Brazilian CEO who revolutionized corporate culture through radical workplace democracy, inspiring alternative approaches to business leadership and organizational design.
  • Richard Branson: founder of Virgin Group whose scrappy, unconventional approach to starting an airline exemplifies entrepreneurial resourcefulness and bold risk-taking.
  • Diana Chapman: executive coach whose interview on this show explored advanced techniques for integrating emotional intelligence with rational decision-making.
  • Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung: pioneering psychoanalysts whose exploration of the unconscious mind inspired Charlie’s Dungeons & Dragons character “Sigmund,” blending psychology with creative expression.
  • Charlie Hoehn: entrepreneur, 4x New York Times bestselling editor, co-founder of Author.Inc, and my former Director of Special Projects.

Places and Venues

  • Washington, DC: the capital of the United States, known for its federal government, historic monuments, and vibrant political and cultural scene.
  • H Street (in DC): a historic corridor in Northeast Washington DC known for its diverse dining scene, nightlife, and cultural venues stretching from Union Station to the Anacostia River.
  • New York City, NY: the most populous city in the United States, renowned as a global center for finance, arts, fashion, and culture.
  • Lower East Side, NYC: a historic Manhattan neighborhood known for its immigrant heritage, trendy restaurants, bars, and mix of affordable and luxury housing.
  • Brazil: the largest country in South America, famous for its Amazon rainforest, vibrant culture, beaches, and cities like Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo.
  • Rio de Janeiro, Brazil: Brazil’s iconic coastal city famous for its stunning beaches, Christ the Redeemer statue, Carnival celebration, and dramatic mountain landscapes.
  • Floripa (Florianópolis), Brazil: the capital of Santa Catarina state, known as the “Magic Island” for its beautiful beaches, technology hub, and high quality of life.
  • Las Vegas, NV: the entertainment capital of the world, famous for its casinos, shows, nightlife, and extravagant themed hotels along the Las Vegas Strip.
  • Vancouver, Canada: a major West Coast seaport city known for its natural beauty, mild climate, diverse culture, and proximity to mountains and ocean.
  • Colombia: a South American country known for its diverse landscapes from Caribbean coastlines to Amazon rainforest, vibrant cities, and rich cultural heritage.
  • Pennsylvania: a Mid-Atlantic U.S. state known for its historical significance, including Philadelphia’s Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell.
  • Los Angeles, CA: the second-largest city in the United States, famous for Hollywood, entertainment industry, beaches, and diverse neighborhoods.
  • XS (Nightclub in Las Vegas): an upscale nightclub at Encore Las Vegas known for its luxurious indoor-outdoor design, celebrity DJ performances, and high-end bottle service.
  • UNLV (University of Nevada, Las Vegas): a public research university known for its hospitality, business, and engineering programs, as well as its Runnin’ Rebels basketball team.
  • South by Southwest (SXSW): an annual conglomeration of interactive media, music, and film festivals and conferences held in Austin, Texas.
  • UT Austin: the University of Texas at Austin, a top-tier public research university known for its academics, athletics, and vibrant campus culture.
  • San Francisco / Bay Area: a northern California region known for its tech industry, iconic Golden Gate Bridge, diverse culture, and steep hills.

Concepts, Ideas, and Frameworks

  • Management Consulting: a professional service where experts analyze organizational problems and provide strategic solutions to improve business performance and efficiency.
  • The Muse: concept from The 4-Hour Workweek for creating an automated, low-maintenance business that generates passive income while requiring minimal ongoing involvement.
  • Scratch-Your-Own-Itch: the entrepreneurial philosophy of solving a problem you personally experience, ensuring product-market fit by building something you genuinely want and need.
  • Moonlighting: the practice of working a side business or project while maintaining full-time employment, allowing entrepreneurs to test ideas with reduced financial risk.
  • Burn the Ships: a commitment strategy inspired by historical military tactics, meaning to eliminate all options for retreat and force complete dedication to a new venture.
  • Fear-Setting: My systematic exercise for defining worst-case scenarios, prevention strategies, and recovery plans to overcome decision paralysis and take calculated risks.
  • The Game: Neil Strauss’ exploration of pickup artist culture and social dynamics, revealing psychological techniques for attraction and social influence.
  • 10 out of 10 Upside: the component of fear-setting that focuses on envisioning and quantifying the best possible outcomes of taking action on a decision.
  • Fame-Jacking: Charlie’s term for his YouTube strategy of creating content analyzing famous personalities to attract their fans and leverage existing audience interest.
  • Tripwire: an online marketing strategy using a low-cost, high-value initial product to convert prospects into paying customers and establish a buying relationship.
  • Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook: Gary Vaynerchuk’s content marketing philosophy of providing value repeatedly (jabs) before making sales pitches (right hooks) to build trust and engagement.
  • The Herbie Parable: a story from Essentialism about identifying and addressing the primary bottleneck in any system to improve overall performance and efficiency.
  • Audience Capture: the phenomenon where content creators become trapped by their audience’s expectations, leading to creative stagnation and burnout as they chase engagement over authenticity.
  • 50/50 Partnership Split: the commonly problematic business arrangement where two partners share equal ownership despite rarely contributing equally, often leading to disputes and power struggles.
  • Sentence Completion Exercises: a psychological technique from The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem using open-ended prompts to uncover subconscious thoughts and limiting beliefs.
  • Shotgun Deal: a business partnership buyout mechanism where one partner names a price and the other must either accept or buy them out at the same price, forcing fair valuation.
  • Mimetic Desire: René Girard’s theory that humans copy the desires of others rather than developing authentic wants, creating cycles of competition and social imitation.

Relevant Resources

SHOW NOTES

  • [00:00:00] Start.
  • [00:06:44] Charlie meets the boogeyman (me).
  • [00:10:11] Why defaulting to management consulting after college felt like daily self-betrayal.
  • [00:13:21] Leaping into parkour training via DVD as a first business attempt.
  • [00:15:45] Moonlighting vs. burning-ships entrepreneurship.
  • [00:16:54] Negotiating remote work with a 90% raise.
  • [00:21:22] Charlie moves to New York and kicks off KickAss Academy.
  • [00:22:16] Airbnb survival tactics while living in a 396 sq. ft. apartment.
  • [00:23:26] Using the fear-setting exercise and other disaster-mitigation strategies.
  • [00:26:11] Charlie’s first blog post and crossing the publishing Rubicon.
  • [00:28:26] How Charlie’s first in-person class prompted an accidental business model.
  • [00:34:21] 10 go-getters make an ambitious move to Brazil.
  • [00:32:14] The daily growth whiteboard system.
  • [00:37:58] How a harsh Tucker Max consultation galvanized the rebranding to Charisma on Command.
  • [00:44:39] From financial downturn to pre-selling a course for $12,500.
  • [00:50:44] Finally making enough money to chase summer in six-to-eight-month increments.
  • [00:52:00] Enjoying the sustainable benefits of creating timeless content.
  • [00:54:05] How Bill Clinton seduced 7,000 people into following Charlie on YouTube.
  • [00:55:46] How Greg McKeown’s Essentialism helped solve Charlie’s “Herbie” problem.
  • [00:58:26] Evolving funnel flow and fame-jacking.
  • [01:03:46] YouTube algorithm changes, short-form content, and maintaining audience trust for the long term.
  • [01:10:58] Why I still create this podcast.
  • [01:19:30] The dangers of succumbing entirely to audience expectation over authenticity.
  • [01:21:42] The catalysts that led to time off, an ayahuasca retreat, and a seven-year transformation process.
  • [01:30:26] Making the transition from 50/50 partner to sole owner.
  • [01:35:16] Recommended reading: Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden
  • [01:37:32] The influence of The Last Psychiatrist blog.
  • [01:41:46] Jay Abraham coaching: “Make it good enough for Tim Ferriss.”
  • [01:43:52] How testimonials added a 4x conversion lift.
  • [01:44:31] Coming to an agreement with the co-founder.
  • [01:47:20] Joe Hudson and the Art of Accomplishment.
  • [01:51:57] Why I stand by The 4-Hour Workweek without further revision, warts and all.
  • [01:55:06] Exercising gratitude even when receiving praise is difficult.
  • [01:59:15] Relationship with earlier work: video vs. writing.
  • [02:02:05] Don’t miss “Filling the Void.”
  • [02:03:56] More recommended reading.
  • [02:06:43] Improv & Dragons.
  • [02:08:06] Charlie’s billboard: “Don’t think, feel.”
  • [02:08:57] Parting thoughts.

MORE CHARLIE HOUPERT QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“Do I choose myself in the face of the world offering me all of this temptation to be something else?”
— Charlie Houpert

“If you don’t believe in it fully, you’re going to sell it with hesitancy.”
— Charlie Houpert

“Don’t think, feel. I know that’s counterintuitive to a lot of people, but lately, that’s been my guiding principle is feel my heart, feel my gut, think from my mind, and try to find some union of the three to move forward.”
— Charlie Houpert

“When you start trading your beliefs for cash or approval, you’re just sending a signal that, ‘I can’t be relied on to be myself and be safe and earn.'”
— Charlie Houpert

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